Relationship Violence: What can I do if I’m being abusive to my partner?

Relationship Violence

Stop using abuse of any form (physical, sexual, economic or emotional), including threats and intimidation.
Accept responsibility for your behavior. Remember that the use of violence is a choice and you can choose to change that behavior.
Do not make excuses for your violence or blame your partner for your abusive behavior.
Seek professional help from a qualified counselor who is knowledgeable about partner abuse.
Alcohol, drug use or mental health problems may make abusive situations worse but they are not excuses for abusive behavior.
Contact an on-campus resource:
- Shepherd University Counseling Center, 304-876-5161
- Dave Cole, Dean of Students
- Dr. Marie DeWalt, Title IX Coordinator
- Any member of the Shepherd University Police Department
- Any member of the Residence Life Staff
Contact an off-campus resource: o The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233)