Warning Signs of a Abusive Relationship
Inconsistent explanations: partners being abused may provide inconsistent explanations as to the cause of their injuries or why they are unavailable to their friends or loved ones
Injuries in various stages of healing: partners being abused exhibit bruises that are in various stages of the healing process at once ranging in color from purple, to yellow, to green
High anxiety: partners being abused may exhibit constant worry over their words or actions, possibly even apologize for the most trivial things they do
Low self-esteem: partners being abused exhibit belief that they are worthless, not attractive, not intelligent, etc. Very self-loathing and self-blaming
Unavailability: partners being abused may be constantly unavailable but have no consistent or real reason why. They cut their ties with friends and loved ones.
If you or someone you know is believed to be in an abusive relationship, please use one of these Resources to get help. AND if you or someone you know is interested in obtaining anOn Campus No Contact Order, Domestic Violence Protection Order or Personal Safety Order, do not hesitate to get assistance!
Symptoms of a Person Being Abused:
Change in eating habits
A feeling of dependence
Behavioral Signs of an Abuser
Intimidation: smashing things, abusing animals, destroying partner’s property, intentionally displaying weapons
Threats: making and/or carrying out threats to harm the partner, to commit suicide because of the partner, report the partner to social/child welfare, or any general threatening actions or words
Isolation: controlling what the partner sees, does, reads, etc., limiting who the partner talks to or sees
Emotional abuse: putting the partner down, calling the partner names, playing mind games, blaming the partner for all bad things happening in their life